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Jesus March 5, 2009

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I’m going to post some questions from “A Course on Chistianity,” which was offered by a former minister at my church, and my answers to them. Here’s the first one, which is probably fitting:

What do the inconsistencies between the Gospel accounts of Jesus’ life suggest about the way we should interpret not only the text, but the meaning of Jesus’ life?

The inconsistencies, for me, show that there were different understandings of what Jesus’ life and ministry meant. People found different aspects of his legacy important and formed different interpretations of his person because of it. This parallels our view of the scriptures… people find different stories meaningful. People translate the text differently. Because of this, none of us should be so arrogant as to claim that our understandings can be more or less meaningful or authoritative than someone else’s.

mid high January 21, 2009

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This past weekend, I went to Mid-Winter camp with my Mid-High kids. We drove out to Tuolomne (near Yosemite) and had an awesome few days with other UCC and DOC churches.

After we all registered, had lunch, a staff meeting, and were situated in our cabins, we spent time with our family groups (which were assigned to us). We made shakers for our jam sessions and thought of a group name and a way to present ourselves. Our group color was pink. Eric came up with the name The Slightly Pink Beatles and we presented ourselves by singing “All You Need Is Love.” He we are:

After more activities, we spent the evening having a dance. I anticipated a bunch of awkward youth sitting around, but those kids danced their butts off (and some of us youth leaders joined in as well)! I quickly learned that these camps are a complete safe place for kids. They don’t feel judged or afraid to be themselves.

After circle and prayer around the campfire, we retired for the evening at 10.30 (lights out at 11.15).

Day 2 began early (7am). After our staff meeting, prayer, breakfast, and worship, the kids went into workshops, which ranged from music appreciation to tutu-decorating to hikes. There were a bunch of options to choose from. I and some other leaders went to pick up supplies from the closest market during this time.

After this, we said grace and ate lunch and went back into more workshops…. And then our Talent No Talent Show! One of our kids played drums. He was a kick.
The kids came up with some awesome acts (3 kids from my family group participated) and the tutu-decorators closed off the show with a dance performance.

After dinner, we presented scripture passages. My group was assigned the story about the Walls of Jericho. My kids did an awesome job. I played God (borrowing a pair of sunglasses from Eric) and Eric played Joshua (which he wore a cape for).

After some family group challenges, I was pleased and saddened to see Michael (one of my family group boys) tear up because it was our last night together. We had one contest that involved styling one kid’s hair with shaving cream and then seeing how many cheetos we could get to stick. I thought it would be hard to get kids to volunteer for this, but just about each kid in our group wanted to be the one to have their head lathered up! In the end, we decided on Kate, who was an awesome sport.


We closed off the evening with ice cream and a slide show, before we went out to the meadow, each holding a candle, to pray together in closing circle. Everyone was invited to offer something they were thankful for or a concern. The kids had some great prayers and I was happy to see Xan (a kid from my church) offer an awesome prayer about how thankful he was to have made so many new friends at this Mid Winter. A few of my kids from family group offered prayers (Sarah offered about 7!).

Our last day fun. As the kids cleaned up and said their goodbyes, it was fun to see how attached they were to everyone. I heard so many exclamations about what good friends they all were and if the kids didn’t walk out with paper or books of names, numbers, and emails, they had them signed all over their body.

We held one last worship session this morning, sharing communion with our family groups and sharing affirmations. Our group was great and provided amazing words for their peers. The goodbyes were hard, but I am glad that my youth group is so excited. I think they are all jazzed about CAZ (the week-long summer camp).

On the trek back to San Mateo, I suggested a Bay Area event. We had plenty of churches from the area with us at Mid Winter (Danville, Berkeley, Santa Cruz, and San Jose), so I suggested we take a trip out to Alcatraz one day with everyone, have a sleepover at CCSM, and then worship together the next morning. The kids were jazzed about the idea, so Christiana and I are going to get contact info for the other youth leaders and see if we can make it happen.

Super energizing weekend! I went all in and did all the dance activities with the kids and participated in everything. Our kids had an awesome time. Yay!

united church of christ October 25, 2008

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Beginning as the conservative Christians known as Puritans, Congregationalists are today among the most liberal Christians in the country. This change throughout the denomination’s history is due largely to the progress this country has made in liberalizing, but is also specific to the denomination. Because of Congregationalists’ stresses on both education and missionary work (and therefore cultural integration), Congregationalists have become a very diverse, educated group that is on the forefront of social movements that belong to the social and political left. The United Church of Christ is a politically active, socially aware denomination that is a far step from its original position of quiet purity and moderation. Although the views of Congregationalists have changed, the group still largely sees itself as a leader and example for the rest of Christendom.

mini sermon, final draft: “things i know to be true” August 27, 2008

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What do I know to be true? In pondering this question, I was initially confused by it. What do I know to be true? With all of the uncertainty in daily life, what can I say that I know? I hardly know what I want to wear in the morning. I had to think pretty hard—what do I know? I know what I love.

I know that I love God. While I don’t think I am capable of understanding the mystery of God, I know that God is. In Exodus 3:14, God said to Moses, “I Am that I Am.” There are so many ways of understanding this… but I love it. I love it. God is. God is beyond our descriptions and the limits of language, but I know that there is something beautiful about praising God, something powerful about scripture, something uniting me with the ground that I walk on, the trees which breathe my air, and the people in this world.

Religion, for me, is a continuing exploration. A PASSIONATE exploration. A submerging oneself in the Divine—feeling the Divine, breathing it in, but not necessarily grasping it. God is the joy and pain and connection that we CANNOT communicate, yet burn to be able to. This church lives in that connection. That’s why I love this church; I know that this church is a beacon of hope in the world in its loving appreciation of the mystery of God and its determination to live as fully as it can in connection with God and community.

I study religion in school and, as most of you know, there is a lot of ugliness to study in religion. Our tradition has been brought to us through a history of violence. We look back, shamefully, on a history of crusades and colonization, a history of wars and inequality. The history of religious activity holds prejudice, damaging doctrine, manipulation, lies, hunger for power, forcefulness… Even today, many bodies of religion continue to further violence, inequality, and injustice…

And there are churches like ours.

We are a rare breed and I am grateful every day that I have this church and community, where I don’t need to sign my name on some kind of contract or make of vows of conformity.

When I was talking to Art Domingue about being baptized here, he said, “we’ll ask you to say these 3 things, but if you’re not comfortable with them, we can work on that.” …How many churches would make that offer? For this church, it’s more important to participate and take joy in community than to have some kind of homogenous faith. There are so many churches out there that say they are welcoming, yet when one digs a little deeper, one finds that they are welcoming on the condition that you change certain things. When Penny says “whoever you are, wherever you are on life’s journey, you’re welcome here,” she MEANS IT. This church is supportive of people’s differences; it doesn’t smother them.

A few weekends ago, a group of members went to the Pride Parade. I’d never been to Pride before… but I won’t miss it again. There was such an energy, especially with the recent turn toward marriage equality. It was hopeful. Walking in the parade, I thought, How is this joy, this love, this support and community not Christianity? What God of love would call that glowing happiness that was inside me and other people that day “sin”?

Our church has realized what God’s love truly means… when we say it’s unconditional, we mean it. We have found how powerful it is when we can extend our love as freely as God does. We went to Pride because we understand that love is something to be celebrated and welcomed.

One of the most beautiful moments I experienced was seeing a gay family member in the crowd, screaming at me and waving his arms. He was supporting me as I was supporting him… and that’s what this church is—a web of people supporting each other in affinity groups, social gatherings, prayer, parades, classes and all of the other ways that we join together. We find joy in our similarities and celebrate our diversity. I love this church.

I’d like to close with something I reflected on after Rev. Bill McKinney spoke at our congregation. During the education hour before church, Carol Henton asked how we could describe our church to people. This is what I came up with:

“My church is progressive. We are non-dogmatic and diverse, valuing our Christian heritage, seeking to be open-minded, accepting, and self-critical, as well as critical of society at large in terms of social justice issues. On Sundays, we worship with a choir and an organ, and the rest of the week, we meet with each other in varying forms of community and place a strong emphasis on advocacy for human integrity. My church is educated and values education. My church is vibrant, hopeful, and diverse. To best understand my church, you have to look at what we do. This is how we best understand ourselves—by the ways that we speak and act in the world.”

This, I know to be true.

The audio version of this mini-sermon can be found here.

more August 25, 2008

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“There are two trees in the garden… and too much of religion is stuck at the wrong tree. Does it bring Life? Eat from that tree.”
–Rev. Yvette Flunder

audio file August 24, 2008

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This is the collection of mini-sermons given by 3 members of our 20/30s group at my church. Mine is the first sermon.

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Now that it’s available and I can finally hear how I sounded on that day, I’m rather disappointed. My vocal dynamics are certainly lacking and I can hear the trembling in my voice. I also wish I’d spoken a tad slower– it might have sounded less like I was reading the newspaper that way.

Quite disappointing, actually. But perhaps if I were delivering a piece I was actually more happy with, I would be more confident in delivering it. Perhaps?

I have a sermon on compassion and a sermon on John 9 that I’d like to give… hopefully at some point, I will have the opportunity.

progress August 23, 2008

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“We never cease to be anything.”
–Rev. Yvette Flunder

puritans August 20, 2008

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Congregationalism, at its beginnings, reflected a conservative religious group for its time. Concerned with purity, moderation, and a strict faith that was at the core of every follower’s life, Congregationalism was at the core of the Pilgrim movement to America. However, the Church whose goal it once was to be a pure “light on a hill” for the rest of the Christian world has turned into one of the most diverse denominations in the country. Because the Puritan movement flourished in America, United States history has strongly influenced the growth of Congregationalism. This country began as many conservative Christians’ attempt to purify themselves and lead the way for a Christian world. Congregationalists arrived in the U.S. as the New World’s “Puritans.” Beginning as an institution that was seemingly intolerant of differences arising within its population, it might have seemed at one time that the community would outdate itself and fall into textbooks as a failed experiment of early American history. However, because of missionary efforts, the stress on education and its opportunities within Congregationalism, and involvement in movements that advanced the opportunities of minorities, Congregationalists have evolved to reflect a diversely thinking body of people. As America has gone through considerable social and economic change, learning to accommodate the needs of a growing population that is increasingly diverse, Congregationalists have adapted themselves to the social atmosphere of this country. Congregationalists (today known widely as United Church of Christ) pride themselves at being at the forefront of the progressive Christian movement, which seeks to be an inclusive, socially active element in today’s society. UCC members, although vastly different from their Puritan forefathers, are perhaps still seeking to be the “light upon a hill,” –still seeking to be the bringers of change.

PIA August 19, 2008

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Yesterday morning, I met with a woman from PIA (Peninsula Interfaith Action) to talk about my church, social justice, and the elements of my religious and community experience that are important to me. We talked about school, seminary, my church, and the efforts my community intends to engage in soon.

A woman from my church gave her my number because I always volunteer for IHN (Interfaith Housing Network)… in fact, my church is hosting the shelter this week and I’ll be working it both Friday and Saturday nights.

Apparently, PIA is planning a retreat in September or October that would allow members of the participating congregations to come together and discuss what aspects of policy and justice we want to be involved in and then how we can incorporate the needs and desires of our fellow congregants in the process… it’ll probably involve many coffee meetings with people to understand what they want to see in their church and community, but of course I love doing church and justice related things, so I am totally open to having such coffee dates with people 

Yvette Flunder August 17, 2008

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“God isn’t stuck having to bless one communion and not the other.”
–Rev. Yvette Flunder

congregationalists August 12, 2008

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While many Christian denominations can be marked today by their tendencies to condemn, the United Church of Christ has adopted a much more inclusive stance. Congregationalist Christians’ beginnings as ‘puritans’ can help illustrate how much change has taken place within the religious institution. Today, Congregationalists are among the most ‘inclusive’ of religious bodies, welcoming minority groups that other religious groups still seem reluctant to welcome, but also going beyond welcoming them to fight against (what many Americans would call) the injustices committed against them. The United Church of Christ is one of few U.S. denominations today that ordains both women and gays, and that openly condemns the war in Iraq, the Patriot Act, as well as policies on prescription drugs, health care, and global trade. While Congregationalism is truly an American religion and takes great pride in its pilgrim roots, it also loudly speaks out against American government in many ways.

western god July 25, 2008

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The dominant Western view of God has traditionally contributed to religious views of earthly stewardship at best, dominance at worst. The Genesis account has most often been interpreted as giving man dominance over women, animals, plants, and all other elements of the earth, with God acting as an external agent, outside of natural order and nature itself. Science and the progress of scientific understanding of our natural world has been positioned against God, as a fundamentally Other way of approaching the natural world and therefore contradictory to a truly religious approach to nature. Therefore, environmental ethics as they are presented by the scientific community are rejected as counter to God and a reliance on God’s wisdom. These views are not only dangerous to the planet, but bankrupt in their moral relevance. A truly ethical approach to the environment should be one of responsibility, connection, and mutual reliance.

progressive christianity June 26, 2008

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So a few Sundays ago, the President of PSR (the grad school I want to go to) spoke at CCSM (my church). He gave the Sunday sermon, but he also gave a talk prior to worship. It was an interesting talk about what it means to be a “progressive Christian” and the problems with labeling ourselves such.

One of the things mentioned (perhaps rather predictably) was Rev. Jeremiah Wright. Obama’s former minister has painted an ugly face for our denomination in the media, rather unfortunately. UCC seems seldom newsworthy, as we aren’t part of the “evangelical” world or the “religious right,” nor do we have any crazy leadership… or, we didn’t think ourselves as having any.

I think it all comes down to what the UCC is. We are committed to diversity. One of our guiding inspirations is the early church and its commitment to individual churches living out the gospel in ways most meaningful to them. Each congregation (although of course they were not called such in the first century) governed itself. There was no centralized authority in such ways as the Catholic Church has, with hierarchical power structures, dogmas, and creeds.

Christians are a family. Like any family, it is often easy to see our differences—Carrie is so tall! I am a vegetarian! My mom is such a great cook! Tanya is so meticulous!—and while we are certainly our own people with our own personalities, there is a love that draws us together. We are a family.

If I can paraphrase Rev. Bill McKinney (and expand on his comments), we, as a church family, are diverse and accepting, as any other family. We celebrate the strengths and mourn the weaknesses of our fellow churches. While Rev. Wright says many offensive things, his ministry is powerful and also has many strengths. His congregation is 6,000 members strong; the works of social justice in his Chicago-church are numerous and rather astounding; his congregation sends more people into seminary than any other within the denomination. These are profound strengths and they should not be looked over if one is to fairly look at Rev. Wright’s ministry. We may not agree with everything he does and says, but his church is part of our family. We love him and disagree with him simultaneously. We are disappointed in the unfairness of his criticisms and we are grateful for the strength he gives our denomination and the justice he does in Chicago.

This very strength of our denomination—its profound diversity of membership, worship style, and demographics—becomes one of its weaknesses when it comes to witness. How can Congregationalists describe their church? We say “liberal.” We say “progressive.” We say a number of catch-words with vague associations and various connotations. How can we, at CCSM, describe the diversity of our membership in a concise way that demonstrates the profound experience, sense of community, and involvement in the Social Gospel to those who are not there on Sundays in worship– or the evenings with the homeless shelter, the mission to New Orleans, or the classical music concerts, or the youth worship services? Our church offers so much to its members, often facilitated by its members; its members offer so much to the community at large. We are involved in Interfaith movements; we advocate for affordable housing; we provide lunches at AIDS clinics; we work with Interfaith Housing Network, Habitat for Humanity, Peninsula Interfaith Action, Samaritan House, ETC.

My church may be a far cry from the original Congregationalist churches founded by our Puritan forefathers, but we are still seeking to be a light on a hill. We are not waiting for God to make the world a better place—we are making it a better place with God. I truly believe that. I love my church; I love my fellow congregants; I will do my best to live out the gospel and be the hands of God in this world.

Carol’s question still lingers, though. How do we describe our church? What do we tell people?

People are generally surprised and confused when I say I go to church—and this is a best-case scenario. Generally, people tend to associate “Christian” with “Evangelical.” The moment “Christian” slips out of my mouth, people seem to assume that I am silently condemning them, judging them, or– who knows what they think? But the reality seems to be that “Christian,” in the ears of those that hear me speak it, seems to mean something very different than it means to me and the members of my church. It becomes to our job to counteract these presuppositions immediately after we mention that we attend Church, especially since when we say we are “Congregationalist” or “United Church of Christ,” people seldom know what we’re talking about—and if they do, it’s probably now within the context of our recent emergence into headlines in association with the racism of Jeremiah Wright’s sermons.

AND CAN I BEAT AROUND THE BUSH ANYMORE? What can I say to people?

I have to say, “My church is progressive. We are non-dogmatic and diverse, valuing our Christian heritage, seeking to be open-minded and accepting, and self-critical as well as critical of society at large in terms of social justice issues. On Sundays, we worship with a choir and an organ, and the rest of the week, we meet with each other in varying forms of community and place a strong emphasis on social justice and advocacy for human integrity. My church is educated and values education. My church is vibrant, hopeful, and diverse. To best understand my church, you have to look at what we do, because this is also how we best understand ourselves—by the ways that we speak and act in the world.”

Also, I was very happy to find that, when I shook Mr. McKinney’s hand after his pre-worship talk, he said, “You’re Joliene, right?” He remembered me from Penny’s ordination, which was in December.

Awesome.

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